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The 2nd Part of the Equation to Have the Imperfectly Amazing Life You Crave

There’s more to taking time for you than letting Calgon take you away. This is a threefold process for connecting with yourself to complete the equation to an imperfectly amazing life!

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The Time for You Process

  • Schedule breaks/ time for yourself – I set up time every morning to meditate, move, review my goals, and get grounded before my little maniac wakes up. When I have that time, I can feel it all day. Likewise, when I miss it, I can really feel it. Find time that makes sense for you and your schedule – don’t force it. If you need help setting up your ideal schedule reach out to me.
  • Go on a date with yourself – It’s great to review your goals and mantras, but after awhile they may become stale or out of date. Taking time to check in with yourself to reflect on how far you’ve come, and where you’d like to go is essential to feeling like you’re accomplishing something, and not just operating on auto-pilot managing the busy all of the time. This is how you continue to feel inspired and motivated, and enjoying your journey because you know you’re in the driver’s seat
  • Connect with your subconscious beliefs – if you find there are obstacles all around you, there’s a very good chance that your inner beliefs are getting in the way. My method for tapping in to my subconscious is movement followed by meditation followed by journaling. Doing this in a strategic way has been so mind blowing effective to reveal my sabotaging beliefs, and use them to fuel my goals rather than stump them.

So there it is.

What is one thing you will do to make time for you this week?

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The First Piece Of The Equation To Have The Imperfectly Amazing Life You Crave

Sometimes life takes over, and you find yourself on auto-pilot. You’re not really enjoying anything, you’re just trying to manage the busy. When you find yourself in that situation, take a step back and remember the formula: gratitude + time for you = imperfectly amazing

In this video, I discuss my recent example of using gratitude to save the day, and why it’s such an important practice that can powerfully change your mindset, and bring joy to your life.

 

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Points to remember for your practice

  • Like draws like – When you focus your attention on the things you don’t like, you draw more of it. When you shift your energy to what is good, even when the sky is falling all around you, you will bring more of the good.
  • Practice makes perfect – The more you do this, the more instinctual it becomes, which means you draw more and more of the good stuff.
  • Don’t beat yourself up – When you catch yourself having a Debbie Downer moment. Don’t berate yourself, just change the thoughts. Tell yourself, that’s how the old me would think about this situation, but the new me is grateful for …
  • Grow huge gratitude muscles – At the beginning of your day, or at the end, or both, take a few minutes to find 1 – 3 things to be grateful for. Find things that apply to your recent day, so that you are constantly practicing how to find the diamond in the rough rather than choosing the same things repeatedly (like your kids or wine), because energy won’t fall for that.

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Gratitude + Time For You = The Imperfectly Amazing Life You CRAVE

The formula for finding the joy in being a woman, a parent, and a spouse 😍🧘‍♀️🤱💃🕺 #gratitude + #timeforyou = #imperfectlyamazing

Sometimes it’s all about the simplicity. Yet simplicity doesn’t mean easy. Nothing worth having is though, right?

I will be going into more detail on the formula in the coming weeks, so stay tuned!

 

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Do You Have a Love Strategy?

It may seem like having joy, passion, and fulfillment in your life just happens. If you love it, you just make it happen, right? But, just like your relationships, it takes thought, strategy, and commitment. Yet it’s just as important and rewarding!

Watch the video to learn more and hear about one of my blocks

Part 1 of Creating Your Love Strategy

  • Find it! – it sounds obvious, but expectations can sabotage the process. There are different ways to open up your subconscious to learn your blocks – movement, journaling, meditation.

Part 2 of Creating Your Love Strategy

  • Make a plan – break down big goals into smaller chunks
  • Schedule it! – unless you create time in your life to work on it, it won’t magically happen

 

It’s your turn to share!

 

Have you found the things that light your up?

 

If so, where are you in making it happen?

 

Having strategy and accountability can be the difference between thinking about doing things and actually doing them. If you are ready to claim the imperfectly amazing life you deserve then reach out to set up a plan, and if I can help you

 

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What are your conditions on happiness?

Stop getting in your own way, and start satisfying your life’s cravings!

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What are your conditions on happiness snapshot

This one’s so good, the landscapers were trying to get close to listen in 🙂

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Reclaim You!

Under that pile of “to do’s” and running around is an amazing woman waiting to be discovered. She’s YOU! She’s buried and screaming to be heard, to be recognized, to be appreciated, but somehow her needs keep getting pushed to the bottom of the pile. Let’s face it, that mountain of chores goes on endlessly, and she will never be freed unless some strategic effort is amassed.

Enter The Have It All method.  This 9 week virtual class and coaching method will lead you to your life’s cravings so you know where to focus your energy. That way you can stop trying to do it all, because you’re not supposed to. Instead use clarity and strategy to direct your energy at what matters most to you (ahem, Have It All).

I’m so grateful to be a witness to what woman have experienced from this program. It is truly transformational. Since I have seen what this method has done for others, I am so inspired to offer it to you. A new session begins for the birth of spring on March 21, and here are some of the goodies included:

9 weeks of virtual small group coaching guided by your energy centers to dig deeper and reveal your life’s cravings and reverse the blocks that are getting in the way of achieving them
Kalusion’s Chakra Flow movement video series to reveal and heal all the areas of your life while dancing and having fun. This is only available to participants of The Have It All Method
The Kalusion Cleanse to create a blank canvas to begin your work of art
Kalusion’s Tea Sampler Gift Set to indulge while you restore Health & Harmony

 

The cost of the entire 9 week program is $299.

I also, offer incentives in the form of value since I know that’s really important to me. So, if a friend or loved one registers with you, you will receive a $99 discount. If you refer someone to the program that registers, but you are not part of this session, I’d like to offer you a $50 referral thank you. Please be sure that the person you referred lets me know your name and email.

If any of this sounds good to you, find out more about The Have It All Method at www.kalusion.com

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Hump Day Harmony: The Chair

Hump Day Harmony is about giving inspiration to help you over whatever mountain is standing in the way of your Health & Harmony

 

I have an old chair that belonged to my great grandmother, and I absolutely love it. I also love how it allows me to reflect on the lives of two very different yet similar women when I think about the woman that sat in that chair about a century ago (my great grandmother), and the woman that sits in that chair now (me).

My great grandmother’s life was very different than mine in so many ways. She was so poised and polished beginning her day by dressing with hose on her legs and heels on her feet. Her hair was set perfectly, and her clothes were pressed and lovely. This was a practice she maintained into her 90’s. She was in charge of managing the household, yet many of the family’s needs were delivered directly to the door, such as milk, and meat. This left her with plenty of time to drive my grandmother and great aunt absolutely bonkers. It almost seems that life was not nearly as rushed for her when I compare it to my day to day life. Yet, she was burdened with expectations; expectations that came from society, and from herself. She felt a pressure to be sure that she managed herself and her family in a certain manner, and that was her sole purpose. Her passions were the silly activities of women with no real world value, and her contributions to society were not appreciated.

Fast forward 100 years, as I sit in my great-grandmother’s chair more than likely in a pair of yoga pants or jeans with the freedom to choose my impact on the world, and the satisfaction of knowing that I can invaluably contribute in a positive way. Yet, I also sit with the burden of expectations, though now the expectations seem to have grown. I am expected to work and contribute to this world or I have not done my part to further women; I am expected to be a devoted mother and wife, or I am failing our future and my responsibilities; and I am still expected to manage the household as my great-grandmother did – keep the refrigerator stocked, the plates full, the checkbook balanced, and the bank account abundant.

The one expectation that neither my great-grandmother nor I seem to have is an expectation to dedicate any time or thought to taking care of ourselves, and yet without devotion to ourselves how do we remain whole enough to fulfill all these expectations?

Perhaps you have felt the burden of expectations from time to time, or they are so subconscious that you haven’t even realized they were there. Even if you haven’t noticed them, you most likely have encountered someone willing to offer judgment based on these expectations. Moms that judge the mom on her phone at the playground, customers that judge the woman with the tantrumming child in the grocery store, co-workers that judge the mother that missed a deadline because her child was sick, and so on and so on. These judgments further ingrain the societal expectations into our own subconscious, that when we do exercise free-will, it’s hard to be clear if our choices belong to us or are the result of a burden we feel mandated to meet.

So in protest of the cultural pressure to be perfect, should we send our kids to school smelly, and stop paying the bills. That actually does sound kind of awesome, but may be a bit extreme for most of us. However, instead maybe we can let ourselves off the hook a little bit. Maybe it can be ok if you go get a well deserved massage after work, and your child misses one dance class; maybe it can be ok to schedule a “skip” day from work and school, and have fun with your family; maybe it can be ok that the only way you can take a call or get any work done is by letting your child run on the playground, and let the judgers judge?

Expectations, whether internal or external usually lead to disappointment, so can we agree to be ok with letting go of perfection, and embrace the joy in our lives?

I would love to hear your thoughts. Do you ever feel the pressure of expectations? Have you ever felt the freedom of letting them go?

 

For many of us these expectations are so ingrained in our subconscious. It makes sense when you think about the two women sitting in the chair 100 years apart feeling their burden. That’s why it can take some outside support, and learning how to turn off our thoughts to get to our real life’s cravings. If you are interested in receiving this type of support, The Have It All Method is a 9 week virtual coaching program that offers just that, and a new session begins March 21. To learn more visit www.kalusion.com

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Flawless Friday – Password Reset???

Flawless Friday is a day dedicated to reminding you that you are already amazing. You are the most absolutely perfect you in this very moment. So take a moment to appreciate you.

 

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Today’s suggestion for Flawless Friday is a password reset. Now, I realize that doesn’t sound real sexy, but bear with me for a moment, there is a method to my madness. Even if you allow your browser or devices to save many of your passwords, usually there are a couple that you make sure to keep under lock and key for security reasons, and find yourself using them on a fairly regular basis. So my suggestion is changing those to be a compliment to yourself or a mantra, basically something positive meant for you. I have to admit, I got this idea from my daughter. She made a password along the lines of IMAmazing, and every time she types in that password she grins and remembers how amazing she is. Of course, still keep your password secure and use those numbers and symbols, but make them for you. Little tweaks like a password reset are a great way to begin a reset of your mindset and life. It’s a small way to have a little reminder built into your day to allow you to appreciate all of your awesomeness.

 

If you would like support and even permission to unleash your awesomeness I invite you to take a look at The Have It All Method where you will get out from under the burden of you daily “To Do” list, and begin to fulfill your desires. Reset, Rejuvenate, and Receive! Watch the free webinar to learn more, or contact me with the form below.

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Hump Day Harmony: Shifting to Joy!

If you’ve been paying any attention to what I’m up to online lately, you may be a little sick of #mygift. Haha, that’s ok. If you haven’t been paying attention, let me give you a quick recap of the #mygift challenge.

#MyGift is the gift that you give to yourself. December can be hectic, and when things get busy we tend to put our own needs on the back burner. For the month of December I am challenging myself to post one gift I give myself each day. The gift can be as simple as accepting a compliment or an offer of help.

The holidays tend to be a mixed bag of emotions; joy, grief, loneliness, depression, excitement, disappointment, overwhelm, bliss, and the list goes on. Taking some time every single day to focus on only you is a great way to reset and rejuvenate yourself so you can be stronger for you or others who may need your support now. Remember, others are probably experiencing a roller coaster of emotions too.

It’s also another way to not just savor your holiday, but also your life! I see so many women who grumble “I have to ….” over every task on their holiday list. I don’t know about you, but I really want to have as much fun during the holidays as the people I am providing the fun for. Taking some time to put your focus on you will allow you to feel less like you’re doing everything for everyone else, and that you have this mountainous “To Do List” to chip away at until the holidays are over. It lets you shift from saying “I have to do something” to “I choose to do something”. This shift will come to play in all areas of your life, for example, instead of “I have to work a full time job” shift to “I choose to earn a regular pay check”. Embracing free will in your life will change your perception in almost everything you do, improve your outlook, and bring you joy!

Now, what are you giving yourself today?

 

If you are ready to embrace joy in your life on a regular basis, come see what The Have It All Method is all about